Most of the time our meditation is done in solitude, which is helpful to slow our mind down and focus on less. It also enables us to clear out racing thoughts and allow each moment to pass with a self-awareness. Meditation is one of my personal favorite ways to be alone, because I can come out of the meditation with deeper reflections of myself. I can see my spirit and who I am on a more vulnerable level.
That being said, let’s try something opposite: a group meditation. Sharing a mindful exercise with others can be very rewarding! As a society, we are evolving to understand how connected we all are to each other, not just physically but emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
Connect Without Words
Here’s a short group meditation that will leave you feeling connected to others:
- Begin by putting your right hand on your heart. Breathe in for four seconds and out for six seconds. Notice your chest rise and fall, and allow your right shoulder to drop and hang while the elbow gently bends. In other words, truly relax as many muscles as possible.
- Form a circle with each person putting their left hand on the upper back of someone else. This is the space between the shoulder blades, what could be considered the back of the heart. This will form a circle of people each with a left hand on the back on the person in front of them.
- Begin the mindful deep breathing in Step 1 again. Now when you inhale, visualize vitality and love coming into your heart from your breath. And when you exhale, push that vitality and love through your left hand into the heartspace of the person in front of you. Breathe love into you, and breathe it out to the next person’s heart. Shift your focus towards the hand on your back, and visualize vitality being passed around the circle.
Put Your Mind Into Breathing
Five minutes of silence doing this can be a great way to see people with a more powerful and nonverbal understanding. I’ve had great success with this in corporate wellness seminars or with groups of friends. Let’s jive with a connection to others!